traveling with four kids

August 7, 2014

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This was our first time flying with all four, while we have the whole road tripping thing with four kids down, flying with them is something we aren’t familiar with. Somehow, I managed to get 5 days worth of clothes (for all of us) in one carry-on suitcase. My mom was pretty surprised at how little we packed, and another mom on the flight who packed for the same amount of days (for a family of 5) was surprised how we were able to do it with no bags checked-in. I’m not an expert at all, since it was our first flight as a family of six, but we seemed to manage well enough, so I’m glad to share what worked well for us here with you all.

We took a red-eye, since it was the most economical and direct way to get to D.C., but I had no clue how the girls were going to do on that flight. Once the plans were in place, I tried to do a little training beforehand. For a couple months leading up to the trip, every time we saw a plane, I would ask Glow, “What are we going to do on the airplane?” And I trained her to respond, “We’re going to sleep!” So that’s what she said every time I asked. I hoped if she said it enough, she would do it when the day came.

Our flight left at 11:45pm (the kids are normally in bed by 7:30pm), so it was already a late night for them, and we didn’t let them sleep on the drive to the airport. I was thinking it was going to either backfire and she would be so tired and cranky that she would wail on the plane, or she would just fall asleep. All the girls were so excited about flying, and take-off was pretty exciting for them, and after take-off, Soul went to sleep and the big girls knocked out soon after. There were some kids sitting in front of us who were watching cartoons (and Glow could see the screen), so she would try to watch, I had to do some maneuvering to block her view between the seats, and after some tossing and turning, she fell asleep. Whew! Then, I fell asleep once I knew she was done for the night. Since it was a direct flight it was only about 4.5 hours, but the kids seemed to sleep well the entire time (it was a different story for Ben and me) and we woke up just a little bit before landing. Once we landed, the girls were so excited and ready to go. We had a shuttle pick us up, and thankfully, we were able to do early check-in at the hotel, so we spent about half an hour just reorienting ourselves with the area and plans for the day before we set off exploring with only about 5 hours of sleep in all our bodies.

The plane ride home was just as smooth, even though we had a layover, and all the girls fell asleep on the plane ride again. I’m thankful that they didn’t throw any plane tantrums and they all did a really good job on all the flights. You just never know with kids, so this first experience with all of them turned out really well.

Now for the packing tips, I packed the exact amount of clothes needed (no extras), one set of pajamas for each person (we bathed each night, so I figured they would stay clean), and I think what made the biggest difference in getting it all to fit into one carry-on suitcase is that I ironed everything. I ironed all the clothes to free them from wrinkles, then folded them to be put in the suitcase, and ironed them all again folded to flatten it even more. I totally think that did the trick! Everyone pretty much only had one pair of shoes and those were the shoes we wore on the plane, so we didn’t have to worry about packing any shoes in the suitcase (though I did throw one extra pair for the girls just in case). All our toiletries were travel size and Ben had them in his messenger bag (not in the suitcase), and I put enough diapers in the carry-on suitcase to last the 5 days we were gone. We didn’t bring any laptops, just an iPad, and I made each of the girls their own mini backpacks and in it were their books, crayons, and a light sweater. I had one backpack, and in it was my camera, wide angle lens, and wallet. We also brought our light umbrella stroller with us too, and that’s that for everything we brought along. Packing light made it really easy!

The girls knew they were each in charge of their own backpack, and since we only had one stroller, they knew their little legs had to do all the walking and complaining wasn’t going to get them very far. I’m pretty proud of them because they were such troopers the entire trip. Sure, we had to stop here and there to break up a fight or put one of them in time-out, but overall, they all did a fantastic job.

What are some of your tips and tricks for traveling with children?


12 comments on “traveling with four kids”

  • anna says:

    AWWWWW!!! the children are so cute!!! Hope you and your family have an awesome time 🙂

  • Stella says:

    Wow, that’s impressive! I’ve only travelled with my soon 10-month old, but his first flight was transatlantic when he was a mere 7 weeks.. Since then he’s done 3 more transatlantics and I think 8 train rides, from 1hr to 5hrs. My best tips- pack light! Try and be well rested (yeah ok I know…) and bring plenty of snacks for mama 🙂 good ones though! My boy is a true champ when it comes to traveling (so far) but I think it gets harder and harder until they reach the age where a movie will entertain them.

  • Andria says:

    I’m going to try packing lighter! My husband’s deployed, so this has been my first summer flying with all three kids myself. The 8 and 6 year old are easy. The 2-year-old is another story!!! I love the adorable pictures of your travelin’ crew.

  • Anne says:

    That’s great. Last time I flew was only with my two. We lugged so much stuff, but it was also winter in New York, so I don’t know if I could have packed as lightly as you did with all the snow gear we hauled. We also flew with carseats, and wow, what a pain. That is still pretty impressive packing I must say. Can’t imagine what our next flight will be like with all 3 kids!

  • connie says:

    great tips -we also flew to east coast with 3 children for 5 days but it was late fall and very cold and we were going to a family wedding so between formal attire & sweaters/pants, we were forced to check in a large luggage. we also had each kid with a rolling backpack with snacks, extra shoes, & ipad. we also had a small umbrella stroller. it was great because in just one trip, the kids got to travel by plane, a boat, taxis, subways, city buses & a rental car.

    • Rubyellen says:

      Yeah traveling in colder weather will definitely call for more stuff. We will do some traveling this winter, so let’s see how light I can pack then!

  • Christine says:

    If you went on a television show entitled, “Ready, Set, Pack Light!” you’d take the winning prize! I can’t believe you’re able to pack for six people in one carry on suitcase. I guess it’s possible to pack lighter – I just haven’t taken the plunge. Thanks for the inspiration to do so. 🙂

  • Casey Smith says:

    I love this post! My husband and I have 2 children…so far…I’d love to have 4 or 5 but we hear a lot from friends (with fewer kids) about the difficulties of ever traveling with a larger family. Besides the expense of each of them needing a plane ticket, I’ve always believed it could be done and will be done for our family:) I’m so glad the girls did such a great job!!!

  • Gina says:

    I am amazed and SUPER impressed with you packing abilities. I cannot pack one bag for myself let alone a family of 6! Part of it is that I overpack for longer trips…and the shoes…oh the shoes…My babe is only a year, but I will certainly try and take some of your tips for making travel a bit easier. I’m so happy everyone was good for you on the plane! That can be scary!



    • Rubyellen says:

      On trips, it’s only one pair of shoes and flip flops (for the pool). Of course, it depends where you go, but eliminating shoes helps really lessen it all.

  • kohar says:

    this is really interesting and amazing article about travelling . i am also working on a travelling site . i want to share this on my site.

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