hope spoken

March 11, 2016


Casey and Danielle asked me if I wanted to speak for the 2016 Hope Spoken way back in August of 2014. I wanted to say no out of fear of public speaking, but Ben told me that wasn’t a good reason, so I said yes. I figured it was a long time away and I would have time to prepare. Once we rang in the New Year though, I was freaking out a bit because I didn’t think March 2016 would be here that soon.

Then they asked me to choose a word that would describe my story and I was so stuck. Mess was the first word that came to mind (and I thought about changing it to something that sounded more hopeful), but mess is what I stuck with. It’s the word that I feel best describes me and what I’m feeling most of the time. So here I was … a mess and traveling to Dallas to talk about my crazies.

I knew I was going to lead a small group, so on top of speaking, I was kind of nervous. I have never been to a conference, so I didn’t really have any expectations nor did I really know anyone. After the whole weekend, my heart was so full and I journaled the plane ride home to process everything. I went in not really knowing anyone, but left feeling like I had some new friends. The ladies in my small group were amazing and allowed me to word vomit all my mess and junk, and talk about how Jesus covers all of our messes and junk no matter how dirty we are. There was an overflow of grace in all of our conversations and a lot of pointing it back to Jesus.

Here’s a list of blessings I wrote down from my Hope Spoken weekend…
– My small group ladies and their stories
– My mess and how God uses that for His glory
– Reminder of the story God is weaving in my life
– Learning to listen to others
– Meeting some of you who have followed this space
– Conversations with Shauna from Poor Pitiful Pearl
– Getting opportunities to share the gospel through my story
– Rest at the hotel
– Rest and girl time (before the conference) with my friend Heather
– Emporium Pies with Christian and Cherayah
– Hearing about Neighbors’ Table and the If Gathering
Ellie Holcomb and her but God stories through song
Holley Gerth and her adoption story
– Spending time with the whole Nepo family (after the conference)
– Talking with Ashley and hearing her heart
– My f-bomb stories pointing me to repent and trust in Jesus
– Ben holding down the fort while I took off for 6 days

Words in my heart during the weekend…
– Listen
– Love
– Pride
– Grace
– Yes
– Mess
– Abandon
– Trust

Phrases that stuck with me…
“My favorite part of me is you.” This is what Tara’s mom tells her.
“Extraordinary acts of God begin with ordinary acts of obedience.”
Though I do think extraordinary acts of God do happen with our by nature acts of disobedience too.
“Allow God to use you.” – Tara Clapping

“If you can’t be an example, be a warning.”
“What a shame if the enemy believes more about our potential than we do.” – Holley Gerth

“Our words are powerful.” – Ellie Holcomb
This is in regards to how we use them to hurt and bless.

“Conscious discipline”
Said during our small group discussion.

It was such a beautiful reminder that God is the one weaving our story, and each and every one of our story looks different, but we all have the same author. All of our stories point to the one who saves us in spite of our mess and brokenness. The righteous for the unrighteous. Jesus in our place. Praise the Lord!

9 comments on “hope spoken”

  • Melli says:

    “Our story looks different, but we all have the same author” – love that! Thank you for sharing and for being transparent. It sounds like it was an amazing event with healing, love, grace and laughter.

  • shauna says:

    Meeting YOU was such a highlight of my weekend. You are as genuine and inspiring as they come. I knew you would be by following along your blog all these years. <3 Hugs New Friend.

  • Katrina says:

    Beautiful post! Praise God.

  • Zoe says:

    I am always so encouraged / inspired / feel good vibes when I read your posts, this one in particular brought me to tears (been feeling particularly in a mess these days) so it was nice to be reminded of God’s saving grace! Thanks again for your lovely blog ( my friend told me about it a few years ago ) so know that you are reaching as far as South Africa and encouraging other Christian mama’s here too <3

  • Kat says:

    This sounds like an amazing time. I love reading your blog and how you show the difficulties of being a mama, while remembering and reminding us Who we need to trust.
    I found the one quote a little off-putting..” my favorite part of me is you ” – for a mother to tell her child. Although it’s undoubtedly meant as a compliment, I grew up with a mother who would say things like this to “build us up”, and I found it disconcerting that she didn’t say many positive things about herself. She had/has low self esteem, and looked forward to the praise people would give her about how great her kids were. As a mother now, I encourage and celebrate my kids, but I would never tell them my favorite part of me is them…my favorite part of me is a heart that gets to live them, a body that was healthy and strong to carry them, and the fact I’m a teacher and a student, with them.

    • Rubyellen says:

      I didn’t think of the sentence as a self-esteem type thing, but I guess based on your experience, I could see how that can come across that way. It’s good reminder to think about the potential meaning of what is said. I thought it was a sweet way of saying I love you to her daughter, at least that was my interpretation of it. My favorite part of me would be Jesus in me because Christ covers me and my mess with His goodness, and that would be what I want my daughters to know most. Thank you for graciously sharing your thoughts on it! It is appreciated!

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